5 THINGS EVERY STUD SHOULD KNOW ABOUT HOW A FEMME THINKS....

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Thank you ladies for the feedback! Fellas, do you sometimes feel you and your girl are speaking a different language? Do you wonder what makes her tick? From telling you how to dress to wanting you to wife her up, here's what you need to know about a femme's minds.

1. Focused on the Problem at Hand

Femme's don't always need a stud to fix it, while they enjoy your perspective and sometimes may pull from your advice, they are capable of solving most problems. Sometimes they just need you to listen. Not to offer any advice, not to inject an opinion...simply to listen.

2. Hard-Wired to be Suspicious

Studs may feel they are simply admiring another girl's beauty but in a femme's mind...you are disrespecting her...when you check out a girl in her presence. By checking out another girl, you plant a seed of suspension. Femmes doesn't mind you looking...but don't look too long and never comment on it...because to a femme needs to know she is all you need... At the same time, femmes feel they have the right to look at other women because she is counting her blessing not comparing you to someone else... Your confidence in what you have with her...only makes her love you more... YES, SHE WANTS HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!

3. Nurturing by Nature

Femme's love their studs. Femmes want to do things to show their appreciation and concern. Often times "appreciation" is confused with "babying or even nagging"... Please understand she only wants the best for you. Stud's need to understand that to nurture is in a femme's DNA.

4. Do Not Need to be Rescued

Save the "captain save a hoe" routine for your jump off. Once you've made a femme your woman know that she is capable of doing anything that needs done. She wants you and doesn't need you. Femmes want studs to believe and understand...she's got your back. No, she doesn't want to get dirty by changing a tire or from mowing the lawn but if push came to shove...She's got it. Save the fairy tales for bedtime...

5. Loves to Feel Desired

Fellas, studs love to feel needed and femmes love to feel wanted... She doesn't spend hours getting ready just to annoy you. Fashion, shoes, pretty things make them feel sexy! A femme loves to feel pretty everyday and is why they love to shop...so they can look good for you... Like some studs will too much money on watches or on their car...femmes will spend whatever it takes to make sure they look good from head to toe...